MONROE MUNICIPAL ALLIANCE COMMITTEE

120 Monmouth Road

Monroe Township, New Jersey  08831

(732) 723-5006

Rlavorato@monroerec.com

Dear Parents,

Where did the summer go??  Well - it is gone and we are definitely back to school!  I say we, because if you are a parent - you are a teacher too.  You are your child’s first and most important teacher.  In order for your child to excel to her/his ability in education, you as a parent/teacher need to be there every step of the way; from morning to night, from preschool through college.  There is nothing in the world that can replace a parent’s love and encouragement. 

Below are a few ideas on things to do to offer your child a prosperous school year!

Find out about your school’s policy regarding dress code, grading, make-up work, and other important issues.  Know what supplies your child needs.  If English is not your first language, let the school know.  Attend all open house events, PTA meetings ...  Let the school know if your family is involved in a crisis that may effect your child’s school work.  Get involved with your child’s school - volunteer - if you can’t, ask your child’s grandparents.  Share your talent or interest with your child’s class.

Children need extracurricular activities to help build confidence and self-esteem.  Find out what activities, clubs, sports are offered through school.  Strongly suggest your child join a program (art and science are offered at area museums).  Help your child discover and appreciate his interests.

Set-up rules with your child.  Let your child be part of the decision making; ( example - have your child choose which night she will go out Fri. or Sat., Sun. can be family day), curfew (What time do you think is most appropriate 10:00 or 10:30), how much television - video games - computer, bedtime (a good night sleep is essential to good school habits), homework before or after dinner? 

Hang a family calendar - each child has a different color pen to jot down their events, test dates.  Put up an “I Need...” list next to the calendar.  Let your child list things he needs, so there won’t be that morning when your child say’s “Dad, where is the glass jar I need for my science project” and Dad says “You never told me you needed a glass jar...” And Mom ends up emptying the jelly jar and everyone is late for school and work!!!

Set-up goals and award achievements when goals are met.  Break large goals down to smaller goals.  Awards do not have to be material.  Example:  If your child is slow in the morning - For every month she gets to school early, she will be awarded by having her favorite dinner made (with her help) every Tue. for a month!  Keep a chart for her to see.  Hang up art work, tests, reports that your child worked on.  Kids love competition!!